Jerusalem

I still don’t quite have words to fully describe our experience in Jerusalem.  I recommend Hilary’s reflections, and in lieu of any writing, offer some photographs.

My sister Hilary and I and our families by the Dome of the Rock.  We went to the Temple Mount twice, and both times I was moved by a sense of calm and peace in the expansive plaza that surrounds the beautiful, exquisitely-detailed building.  Looking at this picture I’m struck, also, by the evidence that Hilary and I are, in fact, grown-ups, and that we have created these real live families.  Which, somehow, continues to shock me.

Jesus Christ’s birthplace in the basement of the Church of the Nativity.  Like so many of the high, holy spots in Jerusalem (and in this case, Bethlehem) I was struck by what seemed like simultaneous ornateness and randomness.  We knelt in front of this silver star and touched it, in a small, low-ceilinged basement lit by hundreds of gas lanterns.

Bethlehem rooftops, with a mosque and two churches cohabiting.  And the stunning blue sky that graced our whole visit except for Christmas Day, when it poured all day long (and created an entirely different, but also real, beauty).

Grace and I on the Mount of Olives on Christmas Eve.

Christmas Eve in Bethlehem.  Heavily armed guards and Santa.

Sunset over Shepherd’s Field, where the angels first appeared to tell of Jesus’s birth.  We sat in an ancient church, open to the air, and sang Christmas carols as the sun set.

Christmas morning in a 12th century Crusader church.  The children went forward to light the advent wreath’s four candles.

Mark of Islam against the same glorious sky.  So many of my pictures are of crescent moons and crosses and flags against the blue Jerusalem sky.

Again, the Dome of the Rock.

The crosses of the Church of the Holy Sepulchre.  Visible in the same frame as the gold dome, if I had had a wider lens.

My son looking up to my father – in so many ways, literal and figurative – at the Western wall.

The prayer that Grace put into the Western Wall.  I left one too.  Praying is saying thank you.

Damascus Gate.  One morning we circled the ramparts around the old city, and explored behind this ornate and beautiful facade.

Inside Jesus’s tomb, from which he ascended into heaven.  I love this picture because you can see the children are praying and I am looking up.  That’s what I do, always, when prayer is called for.  I look up: to the sky, to the stained-glass windows above the altar, just up, up, up.  It’s my automatic instinct.

And so, enriched by a week in December, looking up, always, I go forward into 2012.  Thank you, HTHM.

August 31st


End of day, end of summer wistful. August 2011, Vermont. This picture reminds me of my assertion that we must not presume to walk the terrain of another’s heart without guidance.  We just don’t know what goes on in the head and spirit of others.  Even the glittering, which we may be privileged to glimpse from time to time, is only a tiny indication of what lives in those depths that we cannot plumb.  I find this fact both lonely and miraculous.

morning

How we found them one morning at Basin Harbor.

Irene in photographs

Grace was very anxious about the storm.  Super, super worried, constantly asking for updates.  It’s possible that her parents were talking about it too much.  I was interviewed by a reporter from ABC about the topic: article is here.
On Saturday morning we participated in the great harbor-town tradition of hauling dinghies on the day before a hurricane.

On Saturday  night the four of us went out for Chinese food.  This was my fortune.  May be my favorite fortune ever.

Sunday morning was rainy though not yet very windy.  I took Grace and Whit out for a walk around the neighborhood.  I knew we were going to be inside for most of the day and wanted them to get a little bit of exercise.  Grace was nervous, Whit and I both loved the rain and still-gentle wind (notice his hood not up).

Kaboom.  Big tree branch down right next to our house (that’s our white picket fence).  It took down power and cable lines, but blessedly ours stayed on.  The street was blocked all day and based on my unscientific survey on this morning’s run it is the worst tree-power combo in our part of town.  Another inexpert observation, because today is trash day: a lot of people spent yesterday cleaning out their basements (including us).

We were all going bananas, and the wind had let up a lot.  So off we went to Whole Foods and Home Depot, driving around checking out the damage (not much), car windows down to try to get some fresh air.

In the morning, without thinking about it, it I had said sure we can stay in our pajamas all day.  Whit held me to that promise.

And over dinner we discussed what part of Irene had been the worst.  Grace thought for a moment and said, “well, I think the worrying about it.”  Teachable moment: the anticipation is almost always worse than the reality.  I’m still trying to learn this myself.