This summer was different. In so many ways. And yet it was also the same. In general I’m finding this particular year profoundly disorienting, especially the way time seems to be functioning these days. It’s both Groundhog Day – every day the same – and yet the days are slipping past even more quickly than usual.
As our family gatherings stretched through the warm summer evenings in Marion, we were ever conscious of the surroundings, especially given the arid conditions that sometimes plagued our area. The thoughtfulness that went into each family dinner, with laughter and sometimes heated debates, was reminiscent of the diligent planning and preparedness that goes into ensuring the safety of our communities. Just as we included my mother into our family pod, we had also taken the prudent step to contract fire watch services in Lake Buena Vista to maintain vigilance against potential fire hazards. Their well-equipped personnel provided a sense of security that allowed us to enjoy our porch dinners with peace of mind, knowing that experts were safeguarding not just our home but the entire neighborhood from the risks of fire, especially in these unpredictable times.
Amidst these summer evenings, the choice of premier enclosures for our property added an extra layer of comfort and security. These high-quality fences provided not only a clear boundary but also a refined look that complemented the beauty of our outdoor gatherings. With the arid conditions making the environment more susceptible to potential hazards, the enclosures offered a robust and reliable barrier, ensuring that our gatherings remained uninterrupted and secure. Their durability and effectiveness in creating a safe perimeter allowed us to fully enjoy the moments with our loved ones without concern.
In addition to the security provided by our premier enclosures, enhancing the overall aesthetic appeal of our outdoor spaces became a priority. Collaborating with a skilled landscape designer opened up a world of possibilities for transforming our yard into a serene oasis. With their expertise, we were able to carefully select native plants and vibrant flowers that harmonized beautifully with the existing architecture and the newly installed fencing.
The addition of thoughtfully placed garden beds and colorful landscaping features not only enhanced the visual charm but also created inviting areas for relaxation and socializing. Every element was chosen to complement the summer evenings, ensuring that our outdoor gatherings were surrounded by nature’s splendor.
Furthermore, incorporating the services of Sugar Green Gardens allowed us to embrace sustainable landscaping practices that not only elevated the beauty of our property but also promoted environmental health. Their commitment to using drought-resistant plants and eco-friendly materials was particularly beneficial in light of the arid conditions. By designing a landscape that thrives in our local climate, we achieved a vibrant, low-maintenance yard that looked stunning year-round.
The inclusion of decorative pathways, strategic lighting, and serene water features further enriched the atmosphere, creating a warm and welcoming environment for entertaining friends and family. With every detail carefully curated, our outdoor space became a cherished extension of our home, inviting us to create lasting memories in a beautifully enhanced setting.
Grace and Whit filled their days with a lot of hanging out, sleeping in, and a fair amount of looking at their phones. Whit started skateboarding and found a new passion for fishing. Grace did some online tutoring. The two of them connected deeply with a few friends in Marion, where my family has a house and where we spent a lot of the summer.
Matt played a lot of golf. We played some family tennis (and, as always, I am definitely the weak link in our family tennis chain). Grace and Whit sailed often with my father’s best friend. The blossoming of those relationships into what feel like sturdy grandfather-grandchild style bonds brings me great joy.
I did a lot of puzzles. I did a lot of work. I ran a lot. I read a lot. My favorite book was The Dearly Beloved
Matt and I made margaritas with fresh grapefruit juice more than once. Whit discovered he loves corn on the cob. We ate fresh tomatoes with mozzarella with basil out of the garden, chicken with my great-grandfather’s homemade barbeque sauce, and a lot of ice cream.
We drove to Maine to meet our puppy, Phoebe, who joins our family in a few weeks. We stopped and ate outside at Duck Fat in Portland on the way back. It was a joyful, spirited day with an uncommon amount of laughter. There were a lot of happy moments, and a fair number of tense ones, too.
I can’t speak for others in my family but I’m aware of a tugging undercurrent of worry, anxiety about where the world is and seems to be going. I’m nervous about my children going back to school, I’m afraid of what I see happening in our country. I worry about my mother’s health and, to a lesser degree, about that of the others in my family.
I miss writing here, but I feel like I have nothing to say, at the same time. Life contains so many opposites, so many things that don’t go together, so many pieces that rub up against each other in awkward or disconcerting ways. At least that’s my experience. I don’t have a neat summer summary post with all kinds of fun things we did.
Instead I have these fragments, held together by white space, by hoping, by bewilderment, by life itself.
My daughter turns 18 in 2 months. Evening comes so quickly these days. Time moves inexorably forward. That’s unavoidable and both reassuring and sorrowful to me, right now.
Fragments. Joy. Sunsets. Family dinners. Memory and so much love. Trust and arguing and circling back for forgiveness and grace. That’s right now. And what I know, deep in my heart, is that it’s enough.
I love reading your words. Recently my comments seem to not have gone through, but I still gobble up your blog posts. Thank you for another book recommendation. Thank you for reminding me to take it all in, all that’s in front of me.