It’s enough to be on your way

Sunset over Prout’s Neck, September 8 2007 (at Leonora and Frank’s engagement party).
Been a slow few days. Yesterday I had a great few hours at the end of the day solo – drove out to the new Neiman Marcus, poked around, just enjoyed being alone. An incredible treat. Definitely a highlight of the week.
This morning I ran and it was chilly – fall is definitely here. I was not dressed warmly enough, and I got bad chilblains in the shower when I got home. Was reminded instantly of long cold runs at Exeter. Listened to my usual assorment of easy listening and was really digging a random James Taylor song called “It’s Enough to be On Your Way:”

So the sun shines on this funeral
Just the same as on a birth,
The way it shines on everything
That happens here on Earth.
It rolls across the western sky
And back into the sea
And spends the day’s last rays upon
This fucked-up family, so long old pal.

The last time I saw Alice,
She was leaving Santa Fe
With a bunch of round-eyed Buddhists
In a killer Chevrolet.
Said they turned her out of Texas, yeah,
She burned them down back home,
Now she’s wild with expectation
On the edge of the unknown.

Singing oh, it’s enough to be on your way,
It’s enough just to cover ground,
It’s enough to be moving on.
Home, build it behind your eyes,
Carry it in your heart,
Safe among your own.

Don’t know why I like it so much but I just do. It’s a downright beautiful fall day, full blown sunshine and the crispness that is emblematic of October.
Tonight we are having dinner en famille with all three legs of the stool at the Lavallees. Should be fun – we’re hoping for a good picture of all seven children. SEVEN? My God. Even as I write that I can’t quite believe it. I remember so vividly meeting Elizabeth and Robert on Christina and David’s roofdeck on Mount Vernon Street – we had more margaritas than we could count and laughed all night long. I didn’t know then that we’d be laughing (and drinking) nonstop for the next 6 or 7 years – and hopefully many more.

Birthday party invitations



Having technical difficulties with first birthday invite, but these are 2, 3, and 4. 3 was supposed to be ponies at Verrill Farm, but it snowed so we wound up at our house with Silly Willy.



A lifetime (so far) of birthday parties – #1 for Whit was monkeys, #2 was a tabblo postcard …

Kendall’s engaged! Yahoo! Mr. Trip Foster, welcome to the family.

(photo is from senior year houseparties – tragically long ago)

Grace’s 5th birthday party

It’s that time of year again! Fingers crossed that this year it doesn’t snow, as it did on Grace’s third birthday party (forcing us inside: twenty three-and-under children in our house – never again). The birthdays at BB&N are heavily clustered in the fall and Grace and I are spending every single weekend for the forseeable future attending at least one birthday party. Many of them are totally OTT. I’m pleased with the relatively low-key nature of an open tent on a working farm and donuts and coffee for refreshments. That’s the only downside to a 10am party – you really can’t serve alcohol in good conscience!